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Do You Know What’s In Your Cosmetics?

Do you ever think about the products you put on your body every single day? Most people don’t. I almost typed “women” instead of “people” but this is one big misconception. We think of cosmetics are meaning make-up and specific to women, but they are much more than that. Every single product you use on any part of your body for beautification or cleanliness is a cosmetic. From toothpaste to hair gel to foot scrub, they all count. Most people use 10 or more cosmetics every day, although I’m willing to bet its many more for a lot of people. Look in your medicine cabinet, in your bathroom drawers and cabinets. That’s a lot of product, right?!

Secret Ingredients

Now did you know that the ingredients that go into these products that sit on your hair or skin or eyelashes aren’t really regulated? It’s true, many products include endocrine disrupters, known cancer-causing agents and products commonly causing rash or other symptoms. No one really oversees this and ingredients don’t have to be considered safe before they can go in something. What makes it more scary is that even if you think you’re buying natural products from trustworthy companies, it’s hard to really know what’s in your products. It’s a scary business and you could be slowly poisoning yourself or putting cancer-causers on your skin (which then absorbs into your bloodstream) on a regular or daily basis. Think lead, formaldehyde, parabens, BPA and arsenic.

What To Do About It

Now, if this is new info, don’t freak out! You have control over your health and over the products you choose to use. The easiest way to find out the potential harm from your favorite products is the Environmental Working Group’s Skin Deep Database. Go there. Now. Search your go-to products and take in the information. Then, you don’t have to change. It’s your choice, but knowledge allows you to make an informed, conscious decision about how you choose to live your life.

If you’re interested in learning more about this topic, the cosmetics industry and how it affects your health, check out this article I wrote for Boulder Magazine.

Finally, I’m interested in your thoughts on this topic. No judgement – just curiosity. Do you use a lot of cosmetics? Does the lack of regulation and potentially harmful ingredients scare you? If you checked out the database, what did you learn? Will you change your products or are you happy with what you use?

{Photo Credit: Steve Isaacs}

How To Overcome Routine & Change Your Life

by Amber Erickson

At some point in life, we all find ourselves just chugging along. Following the routine and just going with it. We like this routine because it’s predictable, it’s safe and it’s comfortable. Routine gives the illusion of being in control.

Routine is helpful in this crazy world and does help keep some of us sane, but what if there is a downside to this safe, comfortable pattern of events? What if we are sacrificing our own potential by taking the safe path? What if this routine is keeping you from truly being happy?

Whoa.

Let that sink in for a minute, then think about the last time you did something scary or uncomfortable. It doesn’t have to be a big, life-changing thing, but when was the last time you stepped outside your comfort zone, did something out of character or took a risk?

Do Something Uncomfortable to Change Your Life

There is a book or process or whatever that challenges people to do something everyday that scares them. While this seems generic and maybe even a little strange, it has some serious merit. Doing something scary can change your life.

Routine leads to autopilot and monotony. Doing something scary creates excitement, laughter and a new perspective.

Changing your behavior and actions can change the way you feel or perceive something. Trying something new and scary has the potential to open up a whole new world of possibilities.

Overcome fear
Boost confidence
Produce feel-good hormones
Create excitement and heightened energy
Promote connection if doing it with someone else
Challenge your preconceived ideas of what you’re capable of
Become more comfortable feeling uncomfortable

Creating any change in life can be slightly uncomfortable. It’s learning to become ok with this discomfort and work through it that real insight, growth and change can happen. What is the saying: Insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result. The way to bust through this is to shake things up, bust through those patterns and see what’s possible. Learning to find comfort in discomfort can change the way you perceive life, the way you approach challenge, stress or change and the quality of your relationships.

Here’s the caveat – this doesn’t have to be revolutionary. You don’t have to jump off a cliff (unless you want to), but really, truly think about where your life is a bit stagnant and see how you could step outside your comfort zone and change your life. Here are a couple ideas:

overcome your fear of asking your boss for a raise
conquer your fear of spiders (or snakes)
if someone asks you to do something and it scares you, say yes and actually do it (nothing illegal or super dangerous please)
take a class, try to learn a new instrument or start a new project that intimidates you
try a new recipe or buy an ingredient that you have no idea how to use
let someone else order for you at a restaurant
play in the mud, go sledding or catch frogs like you were a kid again
tell a friend or loved one what’s really on your mind (honesty can be really challenging)
tell your spouse what you need from them (physically, emotionally, spiritually, etc.)
think about what your oldest friends would say when asked the one thing you’d never do – then do it
if you work out, use heavier weights, or more incline or longer time – see what you’re really capable of
develop a bucket list of sorts of things that scare you but you’d like to try and consult that list every once and a while and do them (think skydiving, taking a solo international trip, getting a promotion, quitting your job, moving to a new area, etc)

I am not afraid of discomfort (generally) and have made many big changes in my life, so I can speak to this topic on a personal level. The times I am most happy and spirited and enthusiastic is when I’m doing new, challenging things. It’s exhilarating and frankly, kind of addicting. Not that you need a huge rush every time, but the feeling you get from being in that slightly uncomfortable zone is special. It’s easy to get into a rut in life, just working away, doing the things you should be doing and letting each day pass by uneventfully. Those days are so forgettable and aren’t really contributing to your growth and transformation.

Some of the things that have made the biggest impact on my happiness and general feeling toward life were moving to Colorado, learning to mountain bike, teaching yoga, quitting my old job, starting freelance writing, participating in new activities around town and trying new things. These are the times when I laugh, I smile and not a worried thought or preoccupation exists – it’s like the time of true contentment, happiness and presence.

One good example is mountain biking – it’s so hard. Physically it’s working through a lack of oxygen, fatigued muscles, and then climbing another hill and then having the technical skill to navigate rocks or roots. Most of the time on the bike is uncomfortable in one way or another. I always push through (often with lots of verbal support) and after the ride, I’m on top of the world. I exceeded my past abilities, maybe didn’t fall for once or made it up a big hill – these things push the bounds of what I think are possible and open up new possibilities. If I can do that hill, why can’t I do this bigger, scarier one? And if I can climb hills, maybe I can do this or that or another thing I’m afraid of. We never know just how strong, smart, confident, or whatever we are until we’ve been challenged.

Routine leads us to not be present. Getting outside your comfort zone and doing scary things promote being present, being alert and feeling alive. When it’s put that way, what’s stopping you?

{Note: The photo is my sister sitting in her kart before a karting race. It was terrifying – these things go crazy fast – but so much fun}

Save Your Sanity With These Simple (& Cheap) Self-Care Ideas

by Amber Erickson

The concept of self-care is pretty simple: the things you do to take care of yourself. Easy enough, right?!

Unfortunately, most of us don’t really take care of ourselves to the extent we need to live happy, healthy, vibrant lives. We focus on taking care of family, working, sleeping, eating and maybe fitting in a workout or sparse social life. What we fail to realize is that taking time to nurture all of our needs is the only way to feel whole and complete and prevent dis-ease. These needs include physical, emotional, spiritual, social, environmental, intellectual, etc.

Self-care is often talked about in two circles – mothers and health care providers. These two groups seem separate but have many of the same characteristics. They are so busy providing, nurturing and giving that they have nothing left for themselves. But then not giving to themselves starts a downward spiral of guilt, fatigue, exhaustion and then eventual breakdown or burnout. Parents need adult interaction. They need time away. Nurses need to take lunch breaks. They need relaxing days off. While the topic of self-care lends itself nicely to women who try to do too much, it’s absolutely applicable to men as well. The stress of trying to be the breadwinner and the unrealistic cultural ideal of what a good husband/father/man is can create unnecessary pressure to do more and be more.

Regardless of your lot in life, this all sums down to one simple idea: We all need to take care of ourselves. Period. If you want to be healthy and happy, you have to take care of yourself every day, not just when things go wrong.

If you’ve never thought much about taking care of all sides of yourself, here is a simple list of ideas to get started. Remember that self-care doesn’t have to be expensive or extravagant. Sure, an exotic vacation every year does help to relax, unwind and rejuvenate, but the effects are short-lived. The day-to-day self-care is what really helps you be more patient, more present and more calm everyday. While it’s common to think self-care time takes away from family or work time, think of it this way: Self-care allows you to be a better mom/partner/employee/etc. Taking care of yourself means you have more to give others.

If you still need help getting there mentally, think of it as an investment. Each time you take care of yourself, you’re making a positive contribution to your sanity, your household, your workplace and your community. Giving all the time only leads to resentment, frustration, anger, short-tempers and hostility. Which do you choose?

So what now? What does self-care look like and how can you get started?

Here are just a few ideas. Self-care is a personal process – you need to find what soothes, satisfies and restores your spirit.

Exercise
Take a class (yoga, pilates, zumba, etc.)
Eat Right
Try something new (that’s fun) – bonus for bringing your significant other or friend along
Laugh
Play
Maintain good hygiene
Meditate
Practice yoga or other movement therapy
Take walks (bonus for bringing your furry friend with)
Spend time outdoors
Read (for fun)
Draw, paint or use your creativity
Get a massage
Go out on a date (without your kids)
Take a vacation (even something simple close to home)
Knit, sew or make things
Prioritize personal development
Practice relaxation techniques (guided imagery, visualization, progressive relaxation, breathing, etc.)
Consult an expert (psychotherapy, marriage counseling, yoga therapist, life coach, personal trainer, etc.)
Reduce screen time (put down the phone and step away from the TV)
Make a lunch or coffee date with friends (positive, loving friends only – no negativity and gossiping)
Take a bath

As you can see, the options are quite diverse, cover a variety of price points and are of varying length or commitment. The goal is to do some self-care every. single. day. Your health, happiness, sanity and life satisfaction will thank you.

Now it’s your turn. How do you take care of yourself? Share your favorite self-care techniques and experiences in the comments.

No Time for a Healthy Breakfast?: These 6 Options Will Make You Rethink

by Amber Erickson

Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince, dinner like a pauper, so they say. We all know that we need to eat breakfast, but it isn’t always that easy. It’s a common routine: hit snooze, jump out of bed, rush to get ready, get the kids on the bus, remember to feed Fido and if you’re lucky, you’ll make it to work on time. No time for a healthy breakfast? You’re not alone.

But before you dash through the nearest fast-food drive-through or grab a pastry at the gas station, think again. You can have a healthy breakfast with your busy lifestyle. It just takes a tiny bit of preparation.

I, like you, struggle with breakfast, even though I’m a writer who works at home. I like to sleep in, get dressed, grab a quick breakfast and bring it to my desk to eat while I delete junk emails, browse Facebook and otherwise start the day by getting up-to-date and organized. I just don’t want to cook or even take the time to make oatmeal. Being gluten-free, the quick options are limited (no toast or bagels or cereal here). Plus, the quick options generally are loaded in refined carbs, sugars and other weird stuff.

If you think you have no time for breakfast, especially a healthy one, it’s time to think again and plan some prep into your routine. Take ten minutes at night to prepare your breakfast for the next morning or set aside weekend time to spend an hour in the kitchen.

Here are six great options from some amazing sources.

Overnight Oats –

This one truly is grab and go. All you have to do is grab your container (mason jars are great) and a spoon and head out the door. This post from Prescribe Nutrition gives a personal touch to this simple recipe.

Pre-Made Smoothie –

I talked recently about making awesome green smoothies, but for a quick grab-and-go breakfast, make your smoothie the previous night. Put it in a mason jar with a tight lid and stick it in the fridge. Come morning, you’re ready to go.

Baked Oatmeal –

I love this recipe from Oh She Glows. Side note: I skip the dry sugar in the crunchy topping and don’t feel like I’m missing anything. This oatmeal reheats really nicely and lends itself to creativity once you have the basics down.

Hard-boiled eggs –

Boiling eggs has to be one of the easiest breakfast ideas. Simply bring some water, your eggs, salt and a dash of vinegar to a boil. Once rapidly boiling, let it boil for a minute or so and then turn off the burner and cover. Let sit for at least ten minutes, but it’s ok to forget about them (I always do). Older eggs peel better. Up the nutrition here by also having some fruit and/or nuts.

Homemade Granola –

The options are really endless here. Make chunkier stuff to snack on from an environmentally-friendly container or throw some in yogurt (if you can handle dairy) or kefir (which is dairy but easier to digest), but watch for added sugar. Plain is best. Throw homemade granola in a green smoothie for an extra nutrition punch. This recipe from Elana’s Pantry is sans oats. This one from Oh She Glows is made from buckwheat. And this one from PaleOMG includes pumpkin and looks to satisfy the sweet tooth.

Healthy Muffins –

Be careful about adding too much sweetness (ahem, chocolate chips) but have fun with some of these muffin recipes. While being the perfect grab-and-go, eat-in-the-car breakfast, they have the potential to become unhealthy if you don’t watch the ingredients. Look for ways to get veggies in the mix (like carrot muffins) or use fruit for sweetness. Think of muffins as a quick breakfast idea that probably isn’t healthy enough for every day but could come in real handy for some days. Here are 41 recipes from Paleo Grubs.

With all breakfast ideas, quick or not, the key is to watch sugar, especially adding refined sugars, and try to find ways to incorporate protein and vegetables. Other than that, play around with recipes, see what your family likes and have fun with it. For an added boost, grab an apple or banana as you walk out the door or toss some blueberries into your granola.

Breakfast doesn’t have to be a drag, nor does it have to be stressful. Find what works for you, but remember, you do have time for a healthy breakfast.

What is your go-to quick breakfast food? Share your favorite ideas and recipes in the comments. I’m really hoping to hear from some of you on this one!

{Photo Credit: jules}

This One Thing Can Help You Increase Vegetable Consumption

by Amber Erickson

We all could eat more vegetables. It’s hard – I get it. If you’re wanting to increase vegetable consumption in your household, there are a couple tricks to try. The first is to plan your meals ahead of time and plan what vegetable you are having with your meal or how to sneak more veggies in. Making tacos? Plan for tomato, avocado, spinach, onion and peppers. Load up where you can.

Another trick is to buy veggies when you shop. Sometimes seeing that pepper in the fridge or bag of greens makes me think about incorporating them into snacks (like green smoothies) or meals.

Perhaps the easiest way to increase vegetable consumption is to keep it fresh.

Try a CSA!

A CSA – meaning community supported agriculture – includes a box of fresh fruits, veggies and/or herbs each week. Getting a box of fresh produce, including interesting varieties you’ve never seen before, can propel you to find new recipes, learn to cook new vegetables and inevitably will increase vegetable consumption. Most people will find ways to use their produce because they’ve paid for it and don’t want it to go to waste. Buying from a local CSA also means you are getting local produce.

What’s the Deal with CSA’s?

CSA boxes have grown in popularity in recent years and what makes them great is that they often come from organic (or mostly organic) farms. You’re getting great, fresh produce from sustainable practices. The idea of a CSA is that you pay in the winter or springtime, like buying shares in the company. Then, as produce starts maturing, the yield is split between shareholders.

This means you carry much of the risk of the farm. If the season is wet or if there’s a disaster that affects the crops, you might not get much. Sometimes your investment brings you a yield well worth the cost. Other times you don’t get as much as you’d expect for the money.

The benefit of a CSA is multi-faceted.

1) You know where you’re food is coming from.

2) You have an opportunity to work at the farm and further invest yourself in that farm and their work.

3) You get freshly picked vegetables (and sometimes fruits and herbs too) from local sources.

4) You vote for quality in the food system with your dollars. Local, organic veggies are thought to be more nutritious than conventional.

5) You get chemical-free food for your family.

6) You get exposed to new varieties, recipes and may develop new healthy preferences.

Want to Join a CSA?

If you’re liking the sounds of joining a CSA, you may find comfort that different farms offer different options, like small boxes or every other week pickups. Most of us should be able to find an affordable option and remember that although you’re paying it all up front, your box will save you money every week on groceries.

To find CSA’s in your area, use the web. Here is one resource that talks about CSA’s and has a search function for farms in your state or specific area. Take note that the idea of a CSA has expanded to include other things, like meat, medicinal herbs and fruit. Some farms have add-on’s like eggs to purchase.

Have you ever purchased (or thought of purchasing) a CSA share? What was your experience?

{Photo Credit: casebeer}